Step by Step
Friday, June 2, 2023
“There may be some wrongs we can never fully right. We don’t worry about them if we can honestly say to ourselves that we would right them if we could. Some people cannot be seen – we send them an honest letter. And there may be a valid reason for postponement in some cases. But we don’t delay if it can be avoided. …As God’s people, we stand on our feet; we don’t crawl before anyone.” — Alcoholics Anonymous, 3rd Edition, 1976, Ch 6, p 83.
Today, do not take for granted the weight of Step Nine when considering to whom we must — and can — approach with amends. Some wrongs may never be made right, and there may be no recourse if making an amend risks further injury or implicates an unknowing other person. In cases in which we can honestly conclude that direct amends are not possible, our actions rather than our words may be our only atonement, and our strongest action is to get and stay sober and continue to grow in recovery. When we can and must make amends, however, we are cautioned not to “crawl before anyone,” not to submit to being the proverbial doormat. In drunkenness, we lost our footing which, in turn, triggered the damage we inflicted; in recovery, we must stand on our own feet to give integrity to our amends. And our common journey continues. Step by step. — Chris M., 2023
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